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“I Don’t Feel It”: On Liv Strömquist’s “The Reddest Rose: Romantic Love from the Ancient Greeks to Reality TV”

"There’s something inherently funny about a book of comics that spans the entire history of romantic love: its flaws are obvious because its possibilities are endless," writes critic Nichole LeFebvre.

When Titanic fans realized the movie was turning twenty-five in December, Twitter erupted with variations of a single joke: “I assume Leonardo DiCaprio will no longer want to be in it.” I’d just begun reading cartoonist and activist Liv Strömquist’s The Reddest Rose, translated from the Swedish by Melissa Bowers, and enjoyed the synchronicity. Strömquist’s new book of graphic nonfiction opens with two spreads of amusingly redundant panels, drawn in loose, cartoony lines. In each, an impassive DiCaprio stands next to a (slightly) different thin, blonde model, dumped before her twenty-sixth birthday. He licks a heart-shaped lollipop emblazoned with the words: “I don’t feel it.”

Panel from "The Reddest Rose" with a man licking a heart-shaped lollipop that reads "I DON'T FEEL IT"

In her feminist, irreverent comics, Strömquist delights in tackling massive (even titanic) topics from surprising angles, educating readers while making them laugh and blush. Her first book translated into English was 2018’s Fruit of Knowledge: The Vulva vs. the Patriarchy, a comic cultural history. Now, in The Reddest Rose, she’s looking at love under capitalism, weaving together politics, philosophy, gender studies, and, yes, pop culture. DiCaprio is merely a jumping-off point for the book’s big question: “Some sociologists and philosophers say the feeling of ‘being in love’ has become increasingly rare in our time. But why?”

There’s something inherently funny about a book of comics that spans the entire history of romantic love: its flaws are obvious because its possibilities are endless. Where else can Korean German philosopher Byung-Chul Han share pages with Beyoncé? The book’s strengths come from high-low comedy and frequent, pinballing register shifts. Strömquist is as at home referencing Ancient Greek history—Alcibiades pledging his love to Socrates is a hilarious, standout scene—as she is commenting on the Swedish reality show Married at First Sight.

Strömquist’s blocky, black-and-white style is rooted in the ’90s DIY and Riot Grrl movements. According to an interview in London-based Huck magazine, Strömquist never felt “good enough” as a fiction writer, and found the freedom to experiment in zine culture. She’s not interested in high-brow or high realism, and instead draws with a “chunky, punky pen”—a great phrase that Fantagraphics, her North American publisher, includes on their site. Her style has drawn comparisons to Julie Doucet and Gabrielle Belle, and her sense of humor reminds me of Kate Beaton’s webcomic Hark! A Vagrant—especially in the sections that combine literary history with meme culture. Strömquist’s style offers a helpful shorthand; the eye moves quickly through the illustrations, allowing for an ease of comprehension—a necessity with such complex, footnoted text. She also uses repetition to liven up the dry, academic language:

 

Panel from "The Reddest Rose" reading: "Korean-born German philosopher Byung-Chul Han says the extreme narcissism of the late-capitalist epoch has fundamentally changed our society.*" "*Byung-Chul Han, The Agony of Eros, trans. Erik Butler (MIT Press, 2017)." "The extreme narcissism of the late-capitalist epoch has fundamentally changed our society."

That Strömquist is able to laugh at herself while exploring such heady texts at first endeared me to her. A narrator that doesn’t take herself too seriously makes the research approachable. I felt prepared, even, to understand excerpts from Byung-Chul Han’s work, who offers the book’s first theory: that our late-capitalist era is characterized by a narcissism so extreme that we are now incapable of viewing other people as “atopos,” or unclassifiably other. Through Han’s lens, Strömquist explains that DiCaprio cannot love another, because he cannot truly see them as other.

Page from "The Reddest Rose" featuring several panels reading "What Alcibiades means is that Socrates is 'other'—the philosophical term for this is 'ATOPOS.' If someone is 'atopos,' it means, according to the French philosopher Roland Barthes, that they are 'unclassifiable, of a ceaselessly unforeseen originality.' (Roland Barthes, A Lover's Discourse, trans. Richard Howard (Hill and Wang, 1978(, 34.) / "AND THIS (says e.g. Roland Rarthes and Byung-Chul Han) is ESSENTIAL to how the lover SEES the love object: that they see the other as 'atopos'—incomparable with all the rest. / "People in love always say:" "They're the only one!" "Nobody else compares to her!" "You're the only person in the whole world for me!" "There's no one like you!" "If the doesn't want me, there's NO ONE ELSE!"

“Eeeh . . . ok,” Strömquist writes, moving on to the book’s second theory on love’s alleged disappearance: “the rise of the rational choice.” But I wasn’t ready to leave Han behind. The narrator’s dismissive, silly tone made me curious: Who is this narrator? What is her own relationship to romantic love?

These moments when the narrator speaks are the most frustrating of the book. Perhaps the comedy isn’t translating. The light touch grates on me, as it allows the narrator to evade making any claims or decisions of her own.

Later, when discussing the theory that modern-day masculinity is expressed by emotional distance, Strömquist again avoids telling the reader whether she believes this to be true, skirting any bold or clear statements: “I’m saying this MIGHT be the case!! It doesn’t HAVE to be the case. Calm down! I’m not saying this is ‘good’ or ‘bad!’ I’m just saying that the result is NO LOVE.”

For a book lampooning how late capitalism has made us shallow, The Reddest Rose is also awfully shallow. I longed for the author’s own observations, beliefs, or anecdotes—or at least, as in Fruit of Knowledge, I hoped she’d confess to feeling something. The narrator has more in common with that lollipop of DiCaprio’s than she’d care to admit: “I don’t feel it.”

Page from "Fruit of Knowledge" featuring six panels with a woman talking: "Oh, hi!" / "You may think it's a problem that the part of the body known as the 'female genitalia' has been made invisible and shameful in our culture . . ." / ". . . that it's seen as embarrassing, considered inappropriate to talk about . . . that it's routinely erased an hushed up . . ." / ". . . and that it doesn't even have a proper name!" "You may think this is due to men's power in society—that men have created a culture of shame and secrecy around it!!!" / "But there's a MUCH, MUCH bigger and MORE SERIOUS PROBLEM IN OUR CULTURE!" / "Namely, certain men who've been entirely TOO interested in the part of the body known as the 'female genitalia!'"

From “Fruit Of Knowledge: The Vulva vs. The Patriarchy”

 

The Reddest Rose borrows its title from the modernist poet H.D., who, Strömquist writes, “had a great talent, or propensity, for falling in love.” The title is apt, because it emphasizes the book’s strongest section. At its start, seventy-four-year-old H.D. lies in a Swiss sanitorium. A journalist visits her bedside. Awestruck with love, H.D. writes this poem: “Why did you come / to trouble my decline? / I am old (I was old till you came); / the reddest rose unfolds, / (which is ridiculous / in this time, this place . . .”

Strömquist seems to take a special, gleeful interest in telling H.D.’s stories, the wild highs—the queer love triangles, the dolphins from another dimension, Freud and Ezra Pound and D.H. Lawrence and lesbian heiresses! The art shifts too. In the book’s first three sections, I found myself longing for white space, for breath, because the pages are text heavy—sometimes with captions, dialogue, footnotes, and narration all in one panel. It’s funny, yes, to see philosophers vie for space with pop stars, but it can feel chaotic. Yet the pacing is perfectly balanced in the long third section about H.D., and the splash pages—dramatic, full-page panels—are beautifully detailed.

When Strömquist writes and draws about literary history—H.D., The Little Prince, Anna Karenina—the quality of the illustrations soars, as does the page composition and the conversation between text and art. Strömquist is skilled at finding the exact right moment to include color: H.D.’s mystical blue and pink, dolphins, the Little Prince’s red rose, and Ariadne’s red thread. In these sections, the balance between Strömquist’s research and all-caps comedy feels just right. I even understand the narrator more: her attention is akin to approval.

A full-page panel from "The Reddest Rose" depicting two women sitting on the bank of a river with swans reading "See, Hilda was OBSESSED with Greek mythology and LITERALLY (-ish) believed in Greek gods—and all kinds of occultism and mysticism." / "Frances and Hilda shared an intense passion, and though they both married other people, Hilda never forgot Frances as long as she lived (Guest, 23)."

So is the feeling of falling in love—allowing yourself to succumb to irrational ecstasy—increasingly rare? To borrow a phrase from Strömquist by way of Melissa Bowers: “Maybe, my friends!!! Maybe, maybe!!!!!”

What I can say for sure: this book would be fun, light fodder for a dinner party, a book to leaf through and debate while laughing about contemporary humanity’s least appealing, consumerist traits—those people, over there, the ones who don’t feel it.

The Reddest Rose: Romantic Love from the Ancient Greeks to Reality TV by Liv Strömquist, translated from the Swedish by Melissa Bowers (Fantagraphics, 2023).


© 2023 by Nichole LeFebvre. All rights reserved.

English

When Titanic fans realized the movie was turning twenty-five in December, Twitter erupted with variations of a single joke: “I assume Leonardo DiCaprio will no longer want to be in it.” I’d just begun reading cartoonist and activist Liv Strömquist’s The Reddest Rose, translated from the Swedish by Melissa Bowers, and enjoyed the synchronicity. Strömquist’s new book of graphic nonfiction opens with two spreads of amusingly redundant panels, drawn in loose, cartoony lines. In each, an impassive DiCaprio stands next to a (slightly) different thin, blonde model, dumped before her twenty-sixth birthday. He licks a heart-shaped lollipop emblazoned with the words: “I don’t feel it.”

Panel from "The Reddest Rose" with a man licking a heart-shaped lollipop that reads "I DON'T FEEL IT"

In her feminist, irreverent comics, Strömquist delights in tackling massive (even titanic) topics from surprising angles, educating readers while making them laugh and blush. Her first book translated into English was 2018’s Fruit of Knowledge: The Vulva vs. the Patriarchy, a comic cultural history. Now, in The Reddest Rose, she’s looking at love under capitalism, weaving together politics, philosophy, gender studies, and, yes, pop culture. DiCaprio is merely a jumping-off point for the book’s big question: “Some sociologists and philosophers say the feeling of ‘being in love’ has become increasingly rare in our time. But why?”

There’s something inherently funny about a book of comics that spans the entire history of romantic love: its flaws are obvious because its possibilities are endless. Where else can Korean German philosopher Byung-Chul Han share pages with Beyoncé? The book’s strengths come from high-low comedy and frequent, pinballing register shifts. Strömquist is as at home referencing Ancient Greek history—Alcibiades pledging his love to Socrates is a hilarious, standout scene—as she is commenting on the Swedish reality show Married at First Sight.

Strömquist’s blocky, black-and-white style is rooted in the ’90s DIY and Riot Grrl movements. According to an interview in London-based Huck magazine, Strömquist never felt “good enough” as a fiction writer, and found the freedom to experiment in zine culture. She’s not interested in high-brow or high realism, and instead draws with a “chunky, punky pen”—a great phrase that Fantagraphics, her North American publisher, includes on their site. Her style has drawn comparisons to Julie Doucet and Gabrielle Belle, and her sense of humor reminds me of Kate Beaton’s webcomic Hark! A Vagrant—especially in the sections that combine literary history with meme culture. Strömquist’s style offers a helpful shorthand; the eye moves quickly through the illustrations, allowing for an ease of comprehension—a necessity with such complex, footnoted text. She also uses repetition to liven up the dry, academic language:

 

Panel from "The Reddest Rose" reading: "Korean-born German philosopher Byung-Chul Han says the extreme narcissism of the late-capitalist epoch has fundamentally changed our society.*" "*Byung-Chul Han, The Agony of Eros, trans. Erik Butler (MIT Press, 2017)." "The extreme narcissism of the late-capitalist epoch has fundamentally changed our society."

That Strömquist is able to laugh at herself while exploring such heady texts at first endeared me to her. A narrator that doesn’t take herself too seriously makes the research approachable. I felt prepared, even, to understand excerpts from Byung-Chul Han’s work, who offers the book’s first theory: that our late-capitalist era is characterized by a narcissism so extreme that we are now incapable of viewing other people as “atopos,” or unclassifiably other. Through Han’s lens, Strömquist explains that DiCaprio cannot love another, because he cannot truly see them as other.

Page from "The Reddest Rose" featuring several panels reading "What Alcibiades means is that Socrates is 'other'—the philosophical term for this is 'ATOPOS.' If someone is 'atopos,' it means, according to the French philosopher Roland Barthes, that they are 'unclassifiable, of a ceaselessly unforeseen originality.' (Roland Barthes, A Lover's Discourse, trans. Richard Howard (Hill and Wang, 1978(, 34.) / "AND THIS (says e.g. Roland Rarthes and Byung-Chul Han) is ESSENTIAL to how the lover SEES the love object: that they see the other as 'atopos'—incomparable with all the rest. / "People in love always say:" "They're the only one!" "Nobody else compares to her!" "You're the only person in the whole world for me!" "There's no one like you!" "If the doesn't want me, there's NO ONE ELSE!"

“Eeeh . . . ok,” Strömquist writes, moving on to the book’s second theory on love’s alleged disappearance: “the rise of the rational choice.” But I wasn’t ready to leave Han behind. The narrator’s dismissive, silly tone made me curious: Who is this narrator? What is her own relationship to romantic love?

These moments when the narrator speaks are the most frustrating of the book. Perhaps the comedy isn’t translating. The light touch grates on me, as it allows the narrator to evade making any claims or decisions of her own.

Later, when discussing the theory that modern-day masculinity is expressed by emotional distance, Strömquist again avoids telling the reader whether she believes this to be true, skirting any bold or clear statements: “I’m saying this MIGHT be the case!! It doesn’t HAVE to be the case. Calm down! I’m not saying this is ‘good’ or ‘bad!’ I’m just saying that the result is NO LOVE.”

For a book lampooning how late capitalism has made us shallow, The Reddest Rose is also awfully shallow. I longed for the author’s own observations, beliefs, or anecdotes—or at least, as in Fruit of Knowledge, I hoped she’d confess to feeling something. The narrator has more in common with that lollipop of DiCaprio’s than she’d care to admit: “I don’t feel it.”

Page from "Fruit of Knowledge" featuring six panels with a woman talking: "Oh, hi!" / "You may think it's a problem that the part of the body known as the 'female genitalia' has been made invisible and shameful in our culture . . ." / ". . . that it's seen as embarrassing, considered inappropriate to talk about . . . that it's routinely erased an hushed up . . ." / ". . . and that it doesn't even have a proper name!" "You may think this is due to men's power in society—that men have created a culture of shame and secrecy around it!!!" / "But there's a MUCH, MUCH bigger and MORE SERIOUS PROBLEM IN OUR CULTURE!" / "Namely, certain men who've been entirely TOO interested in the part of the body known as the 'female genitalia!'"

From “Fruit Of Knowledge: The Vulva vs. The Patriarchy”

 

The Reddest Rose borrows its title from the modernist poet H.D., who, Strömquist writes, “had a great talent, or propensity, for falling in love.” The title is apt, because it emphasizes the book’s strongest section. At its start, seventy-four-year-old H.D. lies in a Swiss sanitorium. A journalist visits her bedside. Awestruck with love, H.D. writes this poem: “Why did you come / to trouble my decline? / I am old (I was old till you came); / the reddest rose unfolds, / (which is ridiculous / in this time, this place . . .”

Strömquist seems to take a special, gleeful interest in telling H.D.’s stories, the wild highs—the queer love triangles, the dolphins from another dimension, Freud and Ezra Pound and D.H. Lawrence and lesbian heiresses! The art shifts too. In the book’s first three sections, I found myself longing for white space, for breath, because the pages are text heavy—sometimes with captions, dialogue, footnotes, and narration all in one panel. It’s funny, yes, to see philosophers vie for space with pop stars, but it can feel chaotic. Yet the pacing is perfectly balanced in the long third section about H.D., and the splash pages—dramatic, full-page panels—are beautifully detailed.

When Strömquist writes and draws about literary history—H.D., The Little Prince, Anna Karenina—the quality of the illustrations soars, as does the page composition and the conversation between text and art. Strömquist is skilled at finding the exact right moment to include color: H.D.’s mystical blue and pink, dolphins, the Little Prince’s red rose, and Ariadne’s red thread. In these sections, the balance between Strömquist’s research and all-caps comedy feels just right. I even understand the narrator more: her attention is akin to approval.

A full-page panel from "The Reddest Rose" depicting two women sitting on the bank of a river with swans reading "See, Hilda was OBSESSED with Greek mythology and LITERALLY (-ish) believed in Greek gods—and all kinds of occultism and mysticism." / "Frances and Hilda shared an intense passion, and though they both married other people, Hilda never forgot Frances as long as she lived (Guest, 23)."

So is the feeling of falling in love—allowing yourself to succumb to irrational ecstasy—increasingly rare? To borrow a phrase from Strömquist by way of Melissa Bowers: “Maybe, my friends!!! Maybe, maybe!!!!!”

What I can say for sure: this book would be fun, light fodder for a dinner party, a book to leaf through and debate while laughing about contemporary humanity’s least appealing, consumerist traits—those people, over there, the ones who don’t feel it.

The Reddest Rose: Romantic Love from the Ancient Greeks to Reality TV by Liv Strömquist, translated from the Swedish by Melissa Bowers (Fantagraphics, 2023).


© 2023 by Nichole LeFebvre. All rights reserved.

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